I just found about this from Dan Johnson from the Journey Inside My Mind at http://jimmpodc
One possible solution is to submit your "raw" rss feed fro your worpdress blog (instead of your feedburner feed).
Other soultions include using a different player such as the Wimpy Player (where you have complete control over the look and feel of your player), the Podcast Pick Player, the Pu Pu Player (yes thats its real name), if your site is on Blubrry (new window)they have a player as well.